JFS STYLE
Women so often assume that they are not attractive. Some men further reinforce this idea that a woman is nothing without a big chest (whether shapely or not or even if the large size is inappropriate for her body). In our book "Flat, but proud: Guide to love and, life," we have clearly shown from our extensive research that many men not only like women that have a small chest, they actually find them prettier.When we conducted our research over a four-year time period, one of the questions we asked related to drawing attention to your body. It is obvious that unusually large breast size is difficult to hide and these women do not have to make any attempt to draw attention to them particularly if they take good care of their bodies and dress in style. The challenge is for the small-chested woman to draw attention to herself. While many women that we spoke to would often hide their front out of embarrassment or just did not want others to notice that part, the women that were successful in their lives actually flaunted theirs. This strategy combined with an image of a self-confident woman attracted the right kind of men to them - those that did not think size defines a woman or ones that actually liked such women.
We conducted some research of our own to assess the type of clothes available to these women. While it is true that most clothes fit them better and it is easy to find clothes to wear, what we found was that the clothes were generally designed to hide whatever little they had to show. The biggest disappointment, however, came from the bra manufacturers who ignored these women in the meanest manner possible. Either they did not carry any sizes for them or the choices were very limited.
Successful women have responded creatively to both these challenges. With regards to bras, they have either given up on wearing one altogether (Proud of small breasts) or make adjustments at home to whatever they can find. With blouses and tops, women have increasingly taken control of the situation by coming up with innovative solutions. We came across several of these designs during our research and we are highlighting some of these here:
* Wear a bright colored top or use a bra as a top
* Get hold of a silk scarf and simply tie it around your chest. It matches well with jeans or a mini-skirt
* Prominent and bold neckwear that draws attention to the torso region (notice the necklace and Cute neckwear)
* Wear strapless dresses to expose the shoulders, like Jamie-Lynn Sigler does
* Elaborately embroidered tops that are worn with style over one shoulder without a bra inviting instant attention
* Wear a gown like Felicity Huffman
The successful women consistently indicated that they often devised their own designs to stand out from the crowd. Victoria Beckham has admitted that she is ordinary but with her grooming she can look great. More often than not, it was only an improvisation and did not cost them anything but left a lasting impression on others. Since their chests were small, they could get away with what would be considered as provocative clothing if they were large chested.
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